There was a friend who had to take some money back from me. i took part payment to him and tried to give it back to him. he said i heard you have to pay few others too, i said yes, he said please pay them first and pay me last.
i thought, wow then i said to him , please take this , again he said the same thing.
Finally, convinced him to take my part payment. I came home and sent a thank you message. He writes back , friend if you are still in tough time tell me, i can sell some of my wife s jewelry , make you come out of this time. i thought WOW.
Life has its own ways and i always am amazed at the love, affection, empathy that is there , abundantly , in good people. i thought that can i open a bank that can store all this goodness, in times of need people need more of MORAL THAN MATERIAL SUPPORT.
HAPPINESS IS NOTHING BUT A PERCEPTION.I F WE KNOW HOW TO USE OUR MEMORY DISPLAY AND THEN CREATE IMAGINATIO NS OF GOOD THINGS IN OUR MIND, HAPPINESS STARTS TO RISE WITHIN US.
WE DONT NEED EXTERNAL STIMULAI NECESSARILY TO RAISE HAPPINESS CHEMICLS WITHIN US.
Hi all. 🙏🏼Last week we had a discussion about THE WORD…. “FOCUS”🥸 … What is it? 👀 Does the mind sharpens Focus? 🧠
Or THE SOURCE OF FOCUS IS ON THE FEELINGS? 👩
OR The reason that we focus on a certain priority, or a certain Goal is a function of our need? 💍👔👝
The other question that came up is that even if we choose to focus on a certain goal singularly, WHY DO WE WANT TO DO THAT?🌝🥙🍰
by this i mean what and why this specific goal? 🎯 After the why is ANSWERED…. and it is YES, WE MUST FOCUS ON A CERTAIN GOAL…👼🏿😇 then the next question is How to focus? And/ OR HOW TO ESTABLISH THE BEST LEVEL OF SHARPNESS OF THE FOCUS AND THE SIMPLEST AND FASTEST ROUTE TO ACHIEVE THE OBJECT OR SUBJECT OF FOCUSSED GOAL WE ARE SETTING OUT TO ACHIEVE? 🏃🎁🎂
THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT WE COVERED WAS THAT IN THE QUEST TO ACHIEVE OUR GOAL, WE DON’T BREAK THE LEGAL ASPECTS, THE MORALITY RULES, GIVE PAIN TO HUMANITY ETC.😊🤲🙏🏼👍
THE ABOVE DISCUSSION ENDED, WITH THE SUMMARY THAT WE FOCUS ON THINGS, GOALS, IDEAS, ACTIONS THAT CONSCIOUSLY OR SUB-CONSCIOUSLY WE LIKE, LOVE🌹😍🥰 OR DESIRE…
THE BALL FINALLY LANDED BACK In OUR OWN LITTLE COURT… THAT HOW MUCH DO WE KNOW OURSELVES? 🤓🧐🤩🥳🥹 HOW MUCH Do WE KNOW WHAT AND WHY WE NEED TO ACHIEVE CERTAIN GOALS OR MILESTONES? 🫀👀💪🏻✍️💃🕺🏻👨❤️💋👨
LASTLY, KNOWING THE SELF, WELL. KNOWING THE NEEDS OF THE REAL SELF. PRIORITIZING, WHAT GOAL AND WHAT NEED TO FULFILL FIRST? …… POST
ACHIEVEMENT, WILL THE GAIN BE ONLY OF THE SELF OR IS IT GOING TO BE OF OTHERS TOO? 👩
IF THE GAIN IS OF THE SELF+ OTHERS+THE SOCIETY + MOTHER EARTH IN A BALANCE THEN THE SELF IS AN EVOLVED SELF.
THIS SELF THAT DESIRES A WIN-WIN – WIN FOR ALL IS AN ASSET TO THIS WORLD. 👩👨👩👧👧🐱🐣🪻🌱🪴🌞🌎☄️💦🫧🍅🥥
LUCKILY IN MEDIACOM TEAM WE ARE A SET OF FAIRLY BALANCED PEOPLE AND OUR GOAL IS TO MAKE LIVES OF OTHERS HAPPY AND PEACEFUL VIA SELLING OUR MUSIC SYSTEMS ON WHICH THEY SING OR HEAR MUSIC IN ITS BEST FORM. THUS, AS A TEAM, I KNOW WE ARE NOT MISDIRECTED…. WE JUST NEED TO KEEP ADAPTING AND ADJUSTING, WHILE KEEPING THE FOCUS ON CUSTOMER HAPPINESS AND PROSPERITY, WHILE THAT’S GOING ON WE AUTOMATICALLY GET A LOT OF MONETARY💍👑👏 AND PSYCHOLOGICAL GAINS…🍧 THANKS FOR READING AND PARTICIPATING IN THE MEETING, CALLED “FOCUS, FOR GAINS OR LOSSES” 😊
Life is either live in your self or live outside yourself, or a good mix of both. How do we know the right mix?.. Search within yourself… The answer is not anywhere outside… Good luck.. Hint.. Feel what you wish for the most? Feel what you enjoy most? Feel what you need most? Feel what you want most? 🤔👍🙆♀️🙆♂️🙆🌵❤️🐘🦜🐣
I sometimes think that the choices we have in different area of our lives are, immense, one
such choice is in the area of our Memories.
My question is do we have the choice of what to remember and what not to remember?
Second question is How to have a Memory that is very Healthy for my Well being and the
well being of my loved ones and important people, in my life?
Third question is If I have the skill to manage my Memories Well and it’s for my betterment,
How can I make more people, Happier, by sharing this ART or SCIENCE or WAY OF LIFE,
with all I come across with , whether, via blog or via face to face interactions?
Me, being a novice in the area of Psychology, Philosophy or Religion etc, tried to do a small
research on the above 3 questions and found out Via Psychology the following :
Abstracts taken from the book ” Exploring Psychology” by David G Myers (9th edition from
page 279 to 309)
This Memory Chapter is co-authored, by Dr Janie Wilson with Dr David Myers.
Attributed to our Memories they said,” Largely, we are WHAT WE Remember” , Wow . Wow.
Wow .
“It is our memory that accounts for our time and defines our life”.
“There will be no joy in life, without memory” .
I can go on and on, about the importance of this amazing pillar of, and in our lives, in short ,
Please take out time and make your choices in the area of memory management well. You
will not regret that small investment of time and little effort on this area.. Beautiful Memories,
amazing life..
I wish for you all my dear family, friends and anyone who reads this…A Joyous Journey into
your Memory Lane…
Last but not the least a small question, again, once we have mastered the art/science of our
memory management, how can we make sure that the unwanted memories do not
effect/interfere with , the effectivty or purposefullness of our present and future life?
Enjoy and thanks for your most valuable and kind attention.Iam deeply grateful to you all.
Is my body well-connected with my spirit and soul?
I don’t know the exact answer, but my gut feel is that it is the summary of all good that I have felt, experienced, seen, observed and done. All the good intentions that I carry in my heart and mind, translated or un-translated — my spirit absorbed all this and shaped itself.
Thus, if now I have to feel my spirit is very light and fulfilled, as whatever I experienced and achieved is embedded in the will of God and as he is only kind and giving, my spirit too is nothing more than a microcosm of the infinite mercy and energy of kindness and giving that it receives from the source of all that is visible and invisible.
Defining spirit is not easy, as it is converted to the infinite and eternity.
But this small note does direct me towards the answer and I cannot put it into words or visible explanations, but I can feel the richness of my spirit via the infinite source.
Another way to understand the reply to the question is, if I ask myself if I do love my loved ones, and just how much I really do love them.
If the answer is that I love my loved ones infinitely and will do everything for them, I can then surely say that my spirit is full of love, care and concern, and thus I do live in the spirit of love and care. A short metaphor can explain this. If a container, which is made of plastic, is full of pure water, people will generally not be too concerned with the type and quality of plastic. They will, however, be very focused on the purity levels of the water. The soul and spirit to me are like the water quality in a human being’s existence and not the body, which is like the plastic container: it has a lower significance in the hierarchy.
As soon as I write this, my spirit lifts to a high, I am in loving spirits that can made me do everything — large or small— on a path of love, care and compassion.
This small experiment with my own feelings of love and care reignites my spirit, which in turn prepares my brain and heart to respond to challenges that will have to be undertaken as I, in the spirit of my love for my loved ones, can reshape the strength of my head, heart and body and achieve the call of the soul and spirit. It is about creating the right intent to make positive action possible.
In same spirit of love, care and compassion, my head will guide me to keep myself fit and fine. If I am not fit and fine, I cannot serve my spirit of love and will not be able to positively serve and nurture the purpose of my spirit.
I hope this indirect very small explanation shed some light on the questions as to what is spirit? It’s role in my life?
It also makes me go through the simulated experiment and experience the depth and purpose of the spirit. Once we are in harmony with our spirit and our self, we are much more well-aligned with Allah and his purpose as to why he created us.
SADNESS IS NOTHING BUT A SERIES OF NEGATIVE FEELINGS ARISING OUT OF OUR EXPECTATIONS, IF OUR EXPECTATIONS ARE NOT MET WE FEEL SAD.
HAPPINESS IS NOTHING BUT A PERCEPTION.I F WE KNOW HOW TO USE OUR MEMORY DISPLAY AND THEN CREATE IMAGINATIO NS OF GOOD THINGS IN OUR MIND, HAPPINESS STARTS TO RISE WITHIN US.
